Red Flags Examined
Physical Red Flags- Is this person obese? Do they have tattoos? These could all be foreboding signs.
Psychological Red Flags- Have they been diagnosed w/ a personality disorder? Are they volatile? Do they have a substance abuse predilection?
You must learn that "You Are The Catch" and that you don't have to tolerate people with excessive baggage. Learn to love yourself first before dating so you don't settle for potential Cluster B whack-jobs.